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Nicholas Crowder

FRANCE - TRAVEL, ETIQUETTE FOR BEING A GUEST IN A FRENCH HOME (Page 2)

 When you are taken to the dining table you will be seated by the host. Silverware will be facing downward with the utensils for dessert above the dinner plate. The first course is usually served with wine. After everyone has been served wait to begin eating until the person who prepared the food begins eating. Eat slowly and don't act famished. Always keep you hands on the table and use your knife in your right hand and the fork in your left hand. Never allow your elbows on the table. When you are presented bread you break it with your fingers. Never use a knife and place your bread next to your plate. There are no plates for bread or butter. You will want to finish your meal as a compliment to the cook. In most cases don't ask for second helpings unless offered. Make sure you comment about how good the food is during the meal. 

When you have finished a course place the silverware together across the plate with the fork facing up. Some other things to consider are not using salt or pepper as this may insult the host. Always peel and slice fruit with a knife. When dinner has ended a cheese plate will often be passed around. Remember, to cut the cheese in a wedge and don't cut the point off. There will also be an after dinner drink or brandy offered. In most cases a dinner at a private residence will not run past midnight. The next day it is appropriate to phone your host and thank them for a wonderful evening and meal. 

You may also consider taking a gift if you are a guest for dinner for the person preparing the meal and children. A plant or flowers are good ideas. But, there are some key rules to remember. Never take chrysanthemums as they are usually for funeral. Carnations may be bad luck and roses are usually for lovers or very close friends. Also, present flowers in odd numbers except for thirteen. Chocolates and high quality wines are also very good gifts. Two of my favorite chocolate boutiques in Paris may be found here.